Changes in the brain due to narc. abuse

 

When guilty

 When they are guilty, they don't answer. The silence is guilt. Sometimes they deflect or attack. 

Egotistical but insecure

 

Narcissists think they are great people but engage in tactics such as blame shifting to protect their fragile egos. They are extremely insecure. That's why they can't show you their true face.

And covert narcissists are extremely insecure and jealous.

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So are they egotistical or insecure? They are both. A narcissist doesn't see himself as bad. He needs remorse for that. What you are seeing in him is narcisstic insecurity.  

Demonically possessed

 

The smirk especially when you stumble

Dead eyes because they are dead inside

Black eyes when raging

Sneaky eyes, plotting. Head doesn't move, only the eyes move, scanning the room. 

They don't like to kiss on the lips, that's too much closeness. Demonic spirit doesn't want to be close. 

Wants to break your spirit, break you down. They want you to lose your faith and your hope.

They want revenge. They don't care if you are suffering. 

Trying to put fear in you. Their shouting isn't like a normal person's shouting. 

A narc can never be transparent or vulnerable and hate people who can be.

They walk in deception. Their goal is to destroy you, to steal from you. 

Don't forget

 

Why they don't change

 

The grandiosity gap

 

No past or future.

Dissociate. Confabulate. Contradict themselves. Life as theater.